[15] 这里有一个秘诀：生命并不是一场竞赛 。  
而是一段旅程 。如果你在途中一直都试图给他人留下深刻印象，超过别人，那你就浪费了这段旅程 。与之相反，学会享受它，让之成为快乐之旅，永恒的学习之旅，持久的进步之旅以及爱之旅 。  
Here's a secret: Life isn't a competition. It's a journey. If you spend that journey always trying to impress others, to outdo others, you’re wasting your journey. Instead, learn to enjoy the journey. Make it a journey of Happiness, of constant learning, of continual improvement, of love.  
[16] 不要为拥有一辆更好的车或一所更好的房子或者任何物质的东西，即便是一份薪水更高的工作操心 。这些根本无足轻重，也不会使你快乐 。你可能在拥有了这些之后只是想要更多的 。与之相反，学会满足你已经拥有的---然后学会利用你原本想要浪费在为挣钱买这些东西的时间去做你真正热爱的事 。  
[16] Don't worry about having a nicer car or house or anything material, or even a better-paying job. None of that matters a whit, and none of it will make you happier. You'll acquire these things and then only want more. Instead, learn to be satisfied with having enough — and then use the time you would have wasted trying to earn money to buy those things … use that time doing things you love.  
[17] 找到你的激情，坚持不懈地追求它 。别让自己被一个还债的的工作所累 。生命太短暂了，更不可将之浪费在你所厌恶的工作上 。  
[17] Find your passion, and pursue it doggedly. Don't settle for a job that pays the bills. Life is too short to waste on a job you hate.  
爱应该成为你的生活准则 Love Should Be Your Rule  
[18] 如果让一个词成为你的生活支撑的话，那它应该是爱 。也许这听来已是老生常谈，我也清楚… 但是请信任我，再没有更好的生活准则了 。  
If there's a single word you should live your life by, it should be this: Love. It might sound corny, I know … but trust me, there's no better rule in life.  
[19] 一些人以成功作为生活准则 。他们的生活会很紧张，不开心并且很浅薄 。  
[19] Some would live by the rule of success. Their lives will be stressful, unhappy and shallow.  
[20] 另一些人的生活准则是个人利益---他们将个人需要置于他人需要之上 。他们孤独一生，终究也不会快乐 。  
[20] Others would live by the rule of selfishness — putting their needs above those of others. They will live lonely lives, and will also be unhappy.  
[21] 还有一些人他们为正义而生---努力展示其道路的正确性，并试图劝服任何一个不以正义为生活准则的人 。他们关心他人，却以一种消极的方式，最终怀抱追寻一生的正义而终，而正却是一个糟糕的伴侣 。  
[21] Still others will live by the rule of righteousness — trying to show the right path, and admonishing anyone who doesn't live by that path. They are concerned with others, but in a negative way, and in the end will only have their own righteousness to live with, and that's a horrible companion.  
[22] 用爱支撑你的生命 。爱你的妻子，你的孩子，你的父母亲，你的朋友，全心全意地去爱 。给与他们你所需要的，不要流露出任何残忍，不赞同，冷漠或者失望，只有爱 。向他们敞开灵魂 。  
[22] Live your life by the rule of love. Love your spouse, your children, your parents, your friends, with all of your heart. Give to them what they need, and show them not cruelty nor disapproval nor coldness nor disappointment, but only love. Open your soul to them.  
[23] 不仅仅爱你深爱的人，也要爱你的邻居...你的同事…甚至陌生人…他们是你广义上的兄弟姐妹 。给你遇到的任何一个人一个微笑，一句善语 。